A fundamental transition...

A Fundamental Transition...

Not only have I made the transition from male to female, I've

aged into what I hope is a graceful age.  To be older in society often brings about many issues for our experienced elders.

As a transgender woman I've become used to slights and barely audible comments from others.  These hurt and don't help at all.  And, now my Time has been moving right along.  It's done what Time does best.  How to age with Grace and Dignity. 

Many times I've regretted starting so late in my 'becoming'.
This is a trap.  Not one person that has ever lived has been able to stop time.  Not one.  I've had to meditate and have discussion with family, friends and therapist about how to release myself from the trap of not being viable due to my age.

One of the things I've learned is that age is only a barrier if I let it be.  I'm lucky that I've been able to keep fairly good health.  Having a major heart surgery in my early fifties saved my life.  But, it also put a major speed bump in my road of transition.  Living on my own has also placed another thing to deal with. 

This I know.  Most of my transition has been within my mind.  If fact almost all of it.  I like to say, "I've already transitioned.  It's more a matter of plumbing now."  However, there is no way to turn back the clock.  Living my best self one day at a time has been something I've been trying to do for almost ten years now. That's what's been going on in my life lately. 

Helping others with recovery issues has been a major part of my life and that has probably been the single part of my life that has given me the most rewards.  I would like to recommend that if you're having issues with feeling like "is this really worth it?" get into something socially minded.  Help others.  There are many areas that all elder people can reach out and help.  After all.....we are the Elders.

We all transition in a most fundamental way.  I for one will continue to reach out and be a part of Life.

Hugs and smiles for all.....
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Mariposa

Haiku...

Feelings that don't fit,
Leak out of the box sideways,
Unless we break it.

Playing with pictures....

Something that I used to do...

Something that I used to do was to take and post process pictures.  Here is today's try.  Taken with my Olympus OM-D E-M5 MarkII.  I bought this camera about a year ago and thought that I would get much more use out of it.  Unfortunately that wasn't the case. 

So, maybe as a weekly thing I'll take and post a picture that I find interesting.  They'll be post processed.  I use many different programs. Adobe's Creative Cloud, Corel's Paintshop Pro,  GIMP and Olympus's Workspace software to achieve effects that help.  

I'm trying to gain some consistency it my Life.  Hopefully, this is one of many things that'll help.

Love for all y'all.....

Maybe someone can title this....in the comments section please.

Mari

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Way too long to be silent....

             It's been a very long time....




It's been a very very long time since I've posted anything to Road Rash.

I'm not a consistent person on the best days and many things had happened once I stopped drinking.  Many of these things were beyond my wildest dreams.
Starting with a major heart operation I became much more aware of my health.

What started out as a healing from the inside out I became much aware of my dysphoria.  Feeling feminine in a masculine body was starting to have disastrous effects on me.
And suicide became much more a real option.  I couldn't think of much else.  I stayed sober regardless and pulled back from posting to many of my old haunts.  i.e. blogger, twitter

I used to have a few steady followers.  I think that my coming out may have affected their feelings about me.  I'm not going to apologize or say sorry.  I will wish them well and will always have a moment to share with them if they wish.

So, why now?  Why return to a place I haven't been to in a long time.  Well, Facebook is a mess.
It's as bad as traditional network television.  I find that my addictive nature continues.  Stuck in the click happy world of Facebook is hell.  I'm probably the worst transgressor of reposting memes.

So, maybe it's time to just post those things I create here.  Leave FB to links and silly memes and
events.

Looking forward to some new pictures and anecdotes for all y'all.

With love and life!
Mariposa
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A quiet moment into haiku.

Just one moment, think.
A point in time, consider.
Quiet into Night.

Onto a street of dreams.

Playing with Snapseed. Turning a sow's ear into a silk purse.

Good Morning. Chesapeake Bay Bridge Tunnel

I haven't been across the Chesapeake Bay Bridge Tunnel (CBBT) more than a handful of times in the past years. 

Such an awesome trip any time of day.

Bridges represent a crossing of a border or barrier. I have been at one of the points of crossing for awhile now. 

I see that all things change.  I must cross into the unknown and I will fear and yet continue on despite the fear.

A good friend suggested that I write more.  Like in a professional way.  

I stand at the edge of the bridge and only have to step into the new land. 

I've been here before....

More to come....

Walt.

Good Morning, Playing with HDR

Messing around with photo settings within the LG g3 phone.
Find Joy in all things.

Good Morning, Sunrise in PA

Good Morning from somewhere around Bethel, PA.

Grateful for another day.   Life continues on.  
Trying not to live in the world of negative thoughts and feelings.
Grateful for those who show me how they manage their own lives.

Smile, laugh.  Don't give in and don't give up. 

Trying to remember that as I will have set backs as I live.   And,  that it's okay to have them.  

Shout out to Michael Fernald who's passing through the Land of Enchantment this week.  Enjoy the view.

Drive safe and good roads.
Out

Good Morning, Retired

A true driver will get a bit of a smile when they see this on their rig.
Whether you're a company driver or an Owner/Operator won't matter. New tires makes me feel right with the world.
When it happens just before winter it's a bonus.

Good Morning, Fire in the Sky

Good Morning from the Asphalt Nation.
Heading north on I-81 at sunrise. Taken just north of Carlisle, PA.

Lit from below the clouds look great and the reflection off Belle's hood makes it even better.

Be safe.
Be neat.
Be looking good in the large car seat.

Good Morning, Eyes Right!

Eyes Right!  Present Arms!

A memorial to Highway workers along I-64 E on Afton Mountain.
The view is stunning and always changing.
Please, slow down and give them room to work.

Until we meet again..... toodles.
😊

Good Morning Sunshine

Good morning from Newtown, PA. We're bright eyed and bushy tailed this morning. 

Got plenty of sleep last night. That is a real treat. Be careful out there. Play nice, share your toys. Smile! 

☺

Good Morning, US Route 1, Doswell, VA

Taking US 1 North to avoid an accident.   Always have an alternate route in mind.   Here's a little exercise to try some time.   While driving take a moment and try to remember the last mile marker you passed. 

Not as easy as it seems.  

Hey, enjoy the Day!
😁

Lazy Days and Sundays

Relaxing at home. Not too motivated today.  Our Granddaughter is visiting and her toys have taken over the living room.

I used to be a bear about toys being left out.  Seems that when we get excited about our grandchildren we waive those rules we demanded our children follow.

Well, coffee's done brewing. 

Enjoy the day.

btw playing with the new phone. 😊

Good morning. Into the Gap.

Heading East into New Jersey. 
Through the Delaware Water Gap.
Thawing out and scenic.

Good Morning. Tioga Reservoir

Heading north to Rochester and Buffalo NY.
Best route to take for me.   Be safe, share your toys, play nice.
until next time...

Good morning

And again. Once more into the breech.
Good morning.

Working by the Dashboard Light

My night time work space.

Upon reflection... clouds

Because upon reflection ; Clouds